Can we start over?" : They will agree to start over, and you will be given a second chance at marriage. Note: If you back out of the wedding, you are able to talk to your jilted fiancé at their default location, where they will greet you with, "What do you want? There's no words left to say to each other." You can choose to reply with: However, any income your spouse makes from selling items to you does not affect the separate daily 100 gold your spouse makes for you. In addition, if your spouse has moved into your house with you, he or she will become a merchant, allowing you to buy and sell general items. Starting the next day, you will be able to collect an accumulating daily income of about 100 gold from your spouse regardless of where he or she resides. Upon visiting your spouse in whichever house you have chosen, you will be able to ask them about money earned from a store they will have established. If you have children, you will need to have purchased the children's bedroom, or have built enough beds for them, as appropriate for the type of house. For Hearthfire houses, you must have built a bed for your spouse. In the base game, a spouse will move into any house you own. I guess we'll need to decide where we're living, won't we? You can always stay with me." You can then choose either to live at your spouse's house or one of your own houses. They will open up the conversation by saying, "Married? It doesn't feel like I thought it would, but I'm happy. You should talk to your spouse before they leave the temple to discuss living arrangements. If you go through with the ceremony, the wedding guests will congratulate you on the wedding. "Stop the wedding! I can't go through with this" : Maramal will go on to say "You're just going to walk out on your betrothal? Get out of the temple now!" If you try to speak to the rejected NPC afterwards, they will only say "Get out of my sight." Trying to speak with Maramal or any of the guests that attended the wedding ceremony will greet you with "Just leave." or "Get out.".May they protect each of you in your new life together." I present to the two of you with these matching rings, blessed by Mara's divine grace. Now and forever" : Maramal will then continue on to say, "Under the authority of Mara, the Divine of Love, I declare this couple to be wed. Now and forever." Maramal will then ask you the same question, where you may choose out of two options: Your potential spouse will then reply by saying, "I do. Do you agree to be bound together, in love, now and forever?" May they journey forth together in this life and the next, in prosperity and poverty, and in joy and hardship. We gather here today, under Mara's loving gaze, to bear witness to the union of two souls in eternal companionship. It is from this love that we learn that a life lived alone is no life at all.
It is from her love of us that we first learned to love one another. It was Mara that first gave birth to all of creation and pledged to watch over us as her children. The wedding ceremony will begin with Maramal saying, "Ah here's the blushing bride / proud groom now. Head back into the Temple of Mara and the wedding will begin. Wait 24 hours and leave the temple then wait for the objective "Attend your wedding ceremony" to be displayed. In order to complete the event, you will now need to travel back to the Temple of Mara in Riften and arrange the event. If you say yes, you can then proceed to marriage. They will respond and ask if you are interested as well. Even if a character is flagged as marriageable, the Radiant AI system may not allow you to marry said character even if you have completed their objective, so it's best to have at least one backup candidate. In order for this option to become available, you must complete their objective. When you approach an eligible NPC, they may mention the amulet you are wearing. Maramal can be found in the Temple of Mara, but will initially be found in the Bee and Barb. You will not be able to marry anyone until you have spoken to Maramal about marriage, even if you have already obtained an amulet from somewhere else. You receive one during the Book of Love quest, which you keep when completed. The simplest way is to head to the Riften Temple of Mara and buy one from Maramal for 200 gold, but they will also show up in random loot and at merchants. There are several ways to obtain an Amulet of Mara.